Are you someone who’s wondering what the heck is going on with the stock market right now. Grab a coffee, because I’ve got a story to share, and it’s one that’s been rattling around in my head lately. It’s about fear, regret, and why I’m planting my feet this time, no matter how wild the ride gets.

Let’s rewind to 2020. Picture this, it’s March, the world’s gone sideways, and I’m glued to my screen watching the market tank. Circuit breakers are tripping left and right, sports are canceled (remember how weird that felt?), and there’s this mysterious virus shutting everything down. Quarantine’s the word of the day, and I’m convinced we’re on the fast track to a years-long depression. So, what do I do? I panic-sell everything. I cash out, trot to the sidelines, and pat myself on the back for dodging what I’m sure is the end of the financial world as we know it.

Spoiler alert, I was wrong. Like, catastrophically wrong. Almost exactly five years ago to the day, March 2020, the market hit its low, and then? It ripped higher. And I mean ripped. While I’m sitting there clutching my cash, licking my wounds, the S&P 500 starts climbing like it’s got rocket fuel. I missed out on some of the juiciest gains of my life because I didn’t get back in soon enough.

Lesson learned? Fear is a lousy financial advisor.

Fast forward to today, March 2025, and here we are again. The macro conditions feel shaky. Inflation’s been a rollercoaster, interest rates are doing whatever the Fed wants them to do this week, and the talking heads on TV are tossing around words like “recession” and “uncertainty” like confetti.

Maybe you’re feeling it too, that itch to sell, to run for cover, to wait it out until the skies clear. I get it. I’ve been there.

But this time? I’m not leaving. I’m riding this ship all the way down if it sinks, and here’s why.

The Cost of Sitting Out

Look, I’m not saying I’m fearless now. I’m very uncertain, probably more than I’d like to admit.

But here’s the thing, five years ago, I felt several times worse, and bailing out didn’t save me, it cost me.

When you sell in a panic, you lock in your losses. You miss the rebound. And trust me, watching the market soar while you’re sitting on a pile of cash feels like a punch to the gut. You can’t lose on the sidelines, sure, but you can’t win either. It’s like refusing to play the game because you might stub your toe. Meanwhile, someone else is out there scoring touchdowns.

This time, I’m keeping my skin in the game.

If you and everyone else decide the world’s too scary and start dumping your shares, that’s fine by me. I might just be the one buying them. Cheap stocks in a downturn?

That’s how legends like Warren Buffett built their empires. I’m not saying I’m Buffett (ha, I wish).

But I’m taking a page from Buffett’s playbook: stay calm, stay invested, and let time do its thing.

Taxes Are a Real Buzzkill

Here’s a practical nugget for you: capital gains taxes.

If you’ve been holding stocks for a while and they’ve gone up, selling now means Uncle Sam’s taking a chunk of your profits. I’m not about that life.

By staying in, I’m keeping my money working for me instead of handing it over to the tax man.

Sure, my portfolio might take a hit if the market dips, but it might not. And if it does, I’ve got time to wait for the recovery.

I’d rather ride out a few lean years than trigger a tax bill I’ll regret.

Uncertainty Isn’t New—It’s Normal

Let’s be real, the market’s always uncertain.

Five years ago, it was a virus and lockdowns. Today, it’s inflation, geopolitics, or whatever fresh chaos 2025 decides to throw at us. If you wait for perfect conditions to invest, or to stay invested, you’ll be waiting forever.

Back in 2020, I was certain the world was doomed. I wasn’t just uncertain; I was apocalyptic.

And yet, here we are, with the market chugging along despite it all. Today’s uncertainty? It’s bad, but it’s not end-of-days bad.

I’ve seen worse, and I survived.

How to Ride It Out Like a Pro

Okay, so maybe you’re nodding along, thinking, “Yeah, I don’t want to miss out again either.”

But how do you actually do this without losing your mind every time the Dow drops 500 points?

Here’s what’s working for me, steal these if they sound good:

  1. Zoom Out: Stop checking your portfolio every five minutes. Look at the big picture, five years, ten years. Historically, the market trends up, even with the bumps. My 2020 freakout looks silly now because I was too zoomed in.
  2. Don’t Overthink It: Do not dig your thoughts too deep. If you are not good in analyzing stocks, there are products for you. I’ve got a mix of stocks, ETFs, maybe a little crypto if I’m feeling spicy. It’s not rocket science, just enough to spread the risk. If one sector tanks, something else might hold steady.
  3. Have Cash on Hand: Not all my money’s in the market. I’ve got an emergency fund so I don’t have to sell stocks at a loss if life throws a curveball. It’s peace of mind, plain and simple.
  4. Tune Out the Noise: The financial news loves drama, it’s how they get clicks. I skim headlines, but I don’t let some pundit’s “sky is falling” rant dictate my moves. You shouldn’t either.
  5. Know Your Why: I’m in this for the long haul, retirement, a house, financial independece, whatever. Short-term dips don’t change my endgame. Remind yourself why you invested in the first place.

Going Down With the Ship

Here’s where I’m at, I’m staying in. If this market goes down in flames, I’m going with it.

But I don’t think it will, not forever. Could we see a few years of negative returns? Maybe. Could it bounce back faster than we expect? Also maybe.

Point is, I’m done trying to time the market, it’s a fool’s game, and I’ve already played the fool once.

So, what about you? Are you tempted to sell and sit it out? Or are you riding this wave with me?

No judgment either way, your money, your call. But if you do sell, just know I might be snapping up your shares on the cheap.

I’m not leaving this time. I’ve learned my lesson, and I’m betting on the long game. How about you?

Have a happy investing.

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